Have A Good Old Moan....

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Major anxiety - I am moving. Yet people from out of town want to visit Now before I have moved in. I am wiped out and have to clean both places, unpack etc. Then I will probably want to sleep! I don't want company right now I haven't even been in my own new house yet so I don't feel like having people stay before I have even gotten to live in it.

How do I tell people this nicely? I just need to move and relax and am freaking out because my friends want the address as they are leisurely sight seeing and "may" be in the area. I don't even want to answer the phone or my email about as I don't know how to say it.
I want to cry, I can't sleep! ::) -r-

I love my friend, I am going to start my "time" and have a ton of stuff to do.

Just tell them the truth, politely.  Perhaps say something like, "I'd love to have you when I feel like I can look after guests properly.  Right now, I'm tired and under a lot of stress with the move, and I just don't think it would be a good time for a visit."

I know it's easier said than done... but the only person looking out for your needs is you.  You do have the right to say no.  You don't even have to provide an explanation.  It's okay if it doesn't work... and if they aren't okay with that, then that's really their problem.  You don't have to own it.  You aren't responsible for how they feel or react if you say no.

*hugs*

Can't log into my hotmail email at all and I have my digital download code for new Animal Crossing game in there :'( And other important emails! (but not as important as animal crossing). It's a pain cause it's not my browser or anything, cause I can log in to my other hotmail email for my shop, but not my personal one. I'm annoyed!

Edit - fixed it! yay

Glad it's fixed, Glitter! 

I randomly came across this: http://givemewhitehair.tumblr.com/howto
The whole tone of it is just horrible! And I am not convinced by anything written in the article at all. Wow. Honestly it just really hacked me off!

In other news, I just had a pointless 5.5 hour meeting after work and am super tired

Just read the post. Most of what she's saying makes sense. We wouldn't really agree on the twice weekly 10 vol bleaches, but it works for her. It's just not very nicely put.

Read some more of the blog and she's been really quite nasty about some people. Well, their hair anyway. I get using photos to illustrate over toning etc, but she's not very nice about it.

My friend finally called again at 2am and I called back shweew. May want to meet up, but I explained everything is hectic right now with moving.  I get so over-excited-anxious.  I don't want to let anyone down.  Hopefully I can sleep now.  I rather sleep then give a plan to meet... than make a plan and not sleep thinking about it kookoobird

god i'm so sick of arguing with my 'friend' she started an argument over facebook with me because i liked her boyfriends ex's photo! how ridiculous is that? she thinks im doing it on purpose to annoy her..i'm too old for silly little girls arguments..

I randomly came across this: http://givemewhitehair.tumblr.com/howto
The whole tone of it is just horrible! And I am not convinced by anything written in the article at all. Wow. Honestly it just really hacked me off!

In other news, I just had a pointless 5.5 hour meeting after work and am super tired

One last thing to add. She's really quite judgemental, but having mousy blonde hair she probably has no idea how hard it is for some of us to get our hair light enough for white.

One last thing to add. She's really quite judgemental, but having mousy blonde hair she probably has no idea how hard it is for some of us to get our hair light enough for white.

Yeah. I just find that sometimes it's hard enough to get the colour that you want without other people being super bitchy about it being a little bit off. I don't find the over toning photos all that bad to be honest either so I think that's why it made me mad. I do agree with some of it, like not reaching for the super strong bleach, but advising on 2 bleaches a week isn't exactly a good idea either. Like you say, I guess it works for her!

:'(Pooped out from moving, Friend called at 2am to then see me @ 5am. Am thankful I saw her, it was like we were in HS again even though I was totally wiped out. I think she had to stop to make a poopie lol. I hadn't gone to bed yet so she kept me on the phone to drive by b4 heading out of town.
Totally thankful. The Moan part of the story is the insane amount of social Anxiety I get sometimes.
Totally trivial but I had shampooed my hair with Clairol Shimmer lights for the first time in ages. Two nights in a row and I think I made my hair a bit straight. I had used clairoxide to do my hair a few days ago so maybe that did it :O Am used to curlier hair so felt "naked" heh

I need my hair curlies to hide behind.  Now I am all hyper after the meeting even though I am equally exhausted. ::)
Which must be why I used Totally and poop several times in this story.

My mother still likes to tell me how much she misses my ex-partner. You know, the one who emotionally and psychologically abused me for years. But he didn't actually hit me, so it doesn't really matter. I know she prefers him to my wonderful, awesome, fantastic, wouldn't cross his mind to mentally torture me husband as well.

Have shed more than a few tears about that.

My mother still likes to tell me how much she misses my ex-partner. You know, the one who emotionally and psychologically abused me for years. But he didn't actually hit me, so it doesn't really matter. I know she prefers him to my wonderful, awesome, fantastic, wouldn't cross his mind to mentally torture me husband as well.

Have shed more than a few tears about that.

omg, Tabitha...   I'm so sorry.  That's just not right and it's not okay of her to do. *hugs*

I'm so sorry  Tabitha. Mothers really can be the cruelest people =( *hugs*

My moan is more of an annoyance. At work today I was doing a buy in whilst he guy on the till next to me was doing thw same for a differnt customer. His custys mum walks over and literally shouts 'Oh my god! Look at her face! That's far too much going on!' She was 3 steps away if that. Her daughter was like 'god why are you so embaressing mum1?'

She did apologise, saying it was a shock & not something you see ver often. Then went on to say 'X' would really suit my look. I know everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but i was taught to keep my mouth shut, unless i have nothing nice to say. The pure volume shocked me into silence. Not a fan.