Have A Good Old Moan....

Yeah he's really the worst, I actually have to no reason to like him - it just happened; confusing as hell. I did defriend him, I don't know if I really want to delete him by phone because of how long we have known each other and I already had said to him to leave me alone, he hasn't texted me since and I know he won't because ultimately he simply isn't interested. Thanks for replying, I think this one will heal with time, the worst thing I can do is try and rekindle it - not worth it right?

I'm so sorry, how horrible! What a little shit.

Definitely no point in having anything to do with him again. He's not worth it and it's only going to end up making you feel bad. Delete everything to do with him so there's no temptation and nothing to give you nasty jolts when you come across them. It's horrible when you're looking for someone else's number or something and you come across that persons number.

yeah..maybe you are right :/ now to pluck up the courage to delete a year of my life :/

I agree with Raa and Janine, cutting ties is the way forward. I had a 2 year relationship where we were boyfriend and girlfriend in all but name (joint invitations/holidays/talking about the future, the lot!) but when he decided he wanted a 'proper' relationship it was with someone else. I was crushed, I kept in touch because I believed he was my best friend and I didn't want to write off 2 years of my life. However, staying in touch caused far more heartache for all parties (apart from him obviously) in the long run. It takes guts but making the decision to delete him out of your life will be something that helps heal how you are hurting now. I'm not a psychologist nor do I know anything about psychology, but for me this gave me some control back.
I hope your hurting stops soon. I know it's a cliché but it really will get easier.
*hugs*
(And to prove there is a rainbow after the storm, 2 years after I'm now engaged to the most wonderful man who I never would have met if I'd not cut all ties.)

my cat came home covered in those tiny velcro-like ball things that grow on some kind of plant. Now I have to try and untangle loads of them from her long fur.  *ott*

Definitely - cut all ties if you can. Sometimes its all to easy to mistake the panicky, stressed out feeling you get in a bad relationship for excitement and "butterflies". You will panic when you first cut ties and then feel sad, but it will go away - just keep reminding yourself of the bad times, try not to rose tint the good times.

If he was a real friend to you (even if he wasn't interested in being your boyfriend any more) he wouldn't have treated you that way, and you don't need friends like that in your life! And look at it another way - at least you didn't waste longer than a year being with someone who doesn't make you happy, at least you got out now - because being with him was just stopping you from meeting someone new - and the next guy you meet could be perfect for you

coincidentally, a friend of mine asked me to be his girlfriend today, sometimes things are creepily coincidental, thank you everyone he is deleted

Ffs. Got a message off my manager to say myself and nearly everyone in the company might not get paid due to a communicaton error :(! I have so much I need to sort tomorrow :(:(

Eta- great, no wages.

I've just tried on my dress again for my cousins wedding tomorrow and I really don't feel comfortable in it but I don't have another dress to wear.

Oh no, I have really bad sunburn! I've only ever had sunburn once in my life, and it was just a tiny bit on my shoulders, this is so bright I'm panicking a bit :/ we went out today and I totally forgot to put sun cream on myself, I wasn't outside that long but it was enough to burn my back, my chest and my face I even asked my husband if I was burning or burnt at all and he said no!  I've put after sun on and I'm hoping it won't get worse

I'm taking Norethisterone to delay my period so I don't have to deal with it during my wedding in three and a half weeks.

I feel horrible, I have a tonne of water retention and a super bloated tummy. I've had a mild falling out with OH where I knew I was being over sensitive but I couldn't reign myself in and I've blown it out of all proportion.

I'm already missing my boys something rotten and they're not home til a week on Monday. OH is snoring next to me and I just want to have a big old blub but I don't want to wake him and have to explain my hormonal mentalness :'(

*hugs* fizzwhizz. I'm sure he'll understand.  I feel your pain. I'm on day 10 of my perod. This is on a pill thst is supposed to stop them :s I hope you're retention goes quick.  I think drinking lots of water & having less salt is meant to help.

Thank you Pippa  *hugs* I'm eating Pringles and drinking cider, I'm not sure it'll help physically but it sure is helping mentally

Sorry you're having menstrual misery too. My doctor was all for putting me on the contraceptive pill to see me through the wedding, I said no thank you, I might be a bit unstable ATM but experience tells me, if I'd been taking the pill I would've killed someone by now. I hope it settles for you soon xx

Ughh, I'm only in the beginning of my period ): I really need to sort out contraception! Not only to prevent kiddies. Have the worst mood swings and pains!
My mum keeps telling me to take primrose oil tablets?! Anyone tried them?

and I'm impatiently waiting for mine to arrive today! I'm staying with my boyfriend for a week and a half starting monday and I really don't wanna have my period while I'm staying at his house.